4.16 Domestic Violence and Abuse
ADDITIONAL REGIONAL INFORMATIONDomestic Violence Booklet.
In November 2016, links were added to the Ending Violence against Women and Girls Strategy 2016 – 2020. In Section 3, Agency Response to Domestic Violence and Abuse, additional information was added in relation to the use of risk assessment tools. In Section 6, Additional Local Information, a link was added to Greater Manchester Victims’ Services.
- Agency Response to Domestic Violence and Abuse
- Domestic Violence Protection Orders
- Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme
- Additional Local Information
- Additional National Information
Domestic violence is deeply embedded into the pattern of family life in some communities that victims, perpetrators and children may not define or recognise their experience as domestic abuse. It is usually a hidden experience which is hidden from public view as it can involve shame and stigma for families. Fear of reprisals inhibit disclosures and families can be reluctant to acknowledge or recognise the harm that is being done to children for fear of the consequences of removal of the children into care.
Domestic violence and abuse rarely exists in isolation. The impact of living with adult violence has detrimental emotional and psychological effects on children and it is also a potential indicator for other forms of harm. It is closely associated with substance misuse, homelessness, and mental health.
Services need to engage with the complex and sustained nature of domestic abuse and promote interagency collaboration to address the needs of children.
The Home Office defines Domestic Violence and Abuse as:
Any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass but is not limited to the following types of abuse:
Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour.
Coercive behaviour is: an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.
This definition includes so called ‘honour’ based violence, Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) and forced marriage, and is clear that victims are not confined to one gender or ethnic group.
The definition of Domestic Violence and Abuse has been extended to include young people aged 16 and 17.
While the cross-government definition above applies to those aged 16 or above, ‘Adolescent to parent violence and abuse ‘(APVA) can involve children under 16 as well as over 16. See: Information guide: adolescent to parent violence and abuse (APVA), Home Office.
The Serious Crime Act 2015 creates a new offence of controlling or coercive behaviour in intimate or familial relationships. See Section 2, Legislation for further details.
Domestic violence and abuse is a complex issue and can occur within any relationship i.e. same sex, heterosexual and familial. Moreover it is essential that all workers recognise that domestic violence and abuse is perpetrated by men and women, and within any community. Issues such as ethnicity, religion, social class, disability, family income, occupation, sexuality or age should inform any assessment but not be considered as a barrier to taking action.
For more details of the national plans to tackle domestic violence and abuse see: Ending Violence against Women and Girls Strategy 2016 – 2020 (March 2016). This is intended to set out a life course approach to ensure that all victims – and their families - have access to the right support at the right time to help them live free from violence and abuse.
Domestic abuse and the impact on children
Research tells us there is a significant link between violence to a partner and the abuse of children. 70% of men who are violent to their partner are also violent to her children. Living with Domestic Violence and Abuse has a significant detrimental effect on the well-being of children. Several studies link Domestic Violence and Abuse to the risk of sexual abuse. Violent and controlling individuals misusing their power to have their needs met by a partner may well be using the same power to abuse children in the household.
Children may be involved in Domestic Violence and Abuse in a number of ways.
Children are at increased risk of physical injury during an incident, either by accident or because they attempt to intervene. Even when not directly injured, children are greatly distressed by witnessing the physical and emotional suffering of a parent. Children's exposure to parental conflict, even where violence is not present, can lead to serious anxiety and distress which may express itself in many different ways. The child may become withdrawn or extraverted and this may lead to them becoming involved in anti-social or criminal behaviour. There is potentially a direct risk of physical harm to the child from the domestic violence and abuse perpetrator and this should be considered in all assessments. The child can also be used in order to terrorise the non abusive parent.
Although the abuse may not be a daily occurrence, the risk of an incident places great strain on those living with it with those involved feeling responsible for the abuse and living with a high level of shame and guilt.
Living with domestic violence and abuse does not automatically result in poor parenting; this depends on a range of factors - but consideration of domestic violence and abuse should be present in any assessment undertaken relating to the safety and well-being of a child.
Some parents also misuse drugs or alcohol, experience poor physical and mental ill health and have a history of poor childhood experiences themselves. The co-morbidity of issues compounds the difficulties parents experience in meeting the needs of their children, and increases the likelihood that the child will experience abuse and/or neglect.
If parents or carers are to be empowered to promote their children's well-being, they will require sensitive and appropriate resources, including at times a safe place to live. A therapeutic goal for couples where there is domestic abuse should be that the violence stops and evidence is that the cessation of violence has an immediate impact on the indicators of safety, health and wellbeing of a child and it is particularly effective to intervene early.
Children’s outcomes significantly improve across all key measures after support from specialist children’s services which focuses particularly on the impact of domestic abuse.
Domestic abuse and the effect on the unborn child
There is clear evidence about exposure of impact on physical assault in pregnancy on unborn child:
- Higher risk of miscarriage and spontaneous termination;
- Low birth weight;
- Being ‘on alert’ - hypervigilance - high levels of fear and anxiety.
Post-Natal Trauma Symptoms in Child
- Delayed language;
- Delayed toilet training;
- Sleep disturbance;
- Fear of being left alone;
- Increased arousal, numbing or aggression.
Behaviours observed in children where domestic abuse is present
- Children and young people are likely to experience a range of emotional and behavioural responses, including fear, anxiety, worry, anger and aggression. They may feel isolated and stigmatised, while many have to take on caring responsibilities. The risk of psychological harm is high for those who also experience other forms of abuse and neglect;
- Impact differs by developmental stage: infants may show delayed development, sleep disturbance, temper tantrums and distress; school-age children may develop conduct disorders and difficulties with their peers and find it hard to concentrate; depression, delinquency and aggression are common among adolescents;
- Not all children suffer adverse affects, however. There is evidence that the impact is cumulative, with sustained exposure over time leading to the most severe impact;
- A strong sense of self-esteem and self-efficacy can promote resilience and help children attribute responsibility for the violence to others. Having an adult (usually the mother) who provides consistent support contributes to resilience, while friendships offer vital social support;
- Domestic violence characterises the history of a substantial proportion of looked after children. Contact and reunification plans should take ongoing domestic violence in birth families into account and respect children’s views;
- Young people exposed to domestic violence in childhood are more likely to experience violence and abuse in their own relationships. All practitioners who work with young people should ask about violence in intimate peer relationships, as young people are unlikely to disclose it spontaneously;
- Maternal mental health problems and parental substance misuse both increase the likelihood of harm for children exposed to domestic violence. The mental health of mothers should be a key target for intervention;
- Mothers’ parenting can be undermined by assaults on their self-esteem and confidence, and by perpetrators forging hostile alliances with children or other family members. However, there is clear evidence that parenting can recover once mothers are no longer living with domestic violence;
- Social isolation, which can continue after women leave an abusive relationship, contributes to parenting problems and may be acute for mothers from some minority ethnic communities, mothers with disabilities, families with disabled children and homeless mothers. Interventions should aim to link them into local support services.
The following may be indicators that a child is living in an abusive environment:
- Taking part in dangerous or harmful behaviours;
- Getting into trouble;
- Are unhappy;
- Are worried;
- Are angry and have violent outbursts;
- Find it difficult to control emotions;
- Have sleep difficulties;
- Are afraid of getting hurt;
- Are afraid of someone else getting hurt.
Making a decision to leave one’s home and loved ones requires a long process of contemplation. It is not easy to leave familiar places and routines in order to escape abuse and violence and partners need support to make these difficult decisions. In some situations there will be a conflict of interest whereby the child's need for safety must take priority over the parent's choice to remain with the abusive partner. Safety planning is an essential part of any work with a victim of domestic abuse. It is important that workers recognise the power an abusive partner has over their victims.
Although separating from a violent partner should result in women and children being safe from harm, the danger does not automatically end. It should be recognised that the point of leaving an abusive relationship is the time of highest risk for a victim and their children. Contact arrangements can be used by violent and abusive partners not only to continue their controlling, manipulative, violent and abusive behaviour but also as a way of establishing the whereabouts of the victim(s).
An analysis of Serious Case Reviews found evidence of past or present domestic violence and abuse present in over half (53%) of cases. Child death inquiries have highlighted the need for workers to acknowledge the issue of domestic violence and abuse and incorporate it into their interventions and child protection plans.
The Children Act 1989 provides legislation to aid work in situations where there is a risk posed to children from domestic violence and abuse. The Act:
- Recommends that where possible abusers rather than children should be removed from home. (Vol 1. Section 4.31);
- Places a duty on Local Authorities to provide services to Children in Need and provides funds to help children remain within their own families. (Section 17);
- Places a duty on Children's Services to investigate the circumstances of a child where they are informed that a child is suffering or is likely to suffer significant harm or they have reasonable cause to suspect that a child may be or is likely to suffer significant harm. (Section 47).
The Serious Crime Act 2015 creates a new offence of controlling or coercive behaviour in intimate or familial relationships. Controlling or coercive behaviour does not relate to a single incident, it is a purposeful pattern of behaviour which takes place over time in order for one individual to exert power, control or coercion over another. Such behaviours might include:
- Isolating a person from their friends and family;
- Depriving them of their basic needs;
- Monitoring their time;
- Monitoring a person via online communication tools or using spyware;
- Taking control over aspects of their everyday life, such as where they can go, who they can see, what to wear and when they can sleep;
- Depriving them of access to support services, such as specialist support or medical services;
- Repeatedly putting them down such as telling them they are worthless;
- Enforcing rules and activity which humiliate, degrade or dehumanise the victim;
- Forcing the victim to take part in criminal activity such as shoplifting, neglect or abuse of children to encourage self-blame and prevent disclosure to authorities;
- Financial abuse including control of finances, such as only allowing a person a punitive allowance;
- Threats to hurt or kill;
- Threats to a child;
- Threats to reveal or publish private information (e.g. Threatening to ‘out’ someone);
- Criminal damage (such as destruction of household goods);
- Preventing a person from having access to transport or from working.
In most circumstances children exposed to domestic abuse can be defined as Children in Need. All agencies, have a duty to safeguard and promote the welfare of children, wherever possible keeping them within their families. The safety of the abused partner and the children is the primary concern of all agencies. They should be listened to with respect and dignity and without judgement. Workers should empower them to make decisions and not make decisions on their behalf. Information sharing is beneficial if carried out appropriately and safely and confidentiality should be respected.
Workers should not put themselves or their colleagues at risk in a potentially violent situation.
Research shows that the quality of a worker's response can significantly influence the likelihood of individuals engaging in the change process. Workers need to support and empower individuals to strengthen their ability to promote the well-being of their children. At an initial stage this may mean acknowledging that the abuse is not their fault and reassuring them that they will receive help to resolve difficulties.
Individuals may feel they need permission to openly discuss the issues of conflict and abuse within their intimate relationships without feeling they are being judged or fear that their disclosure will lead to further violence, control or oppression.
Domestic violence and abuse should be recorded as a specific concern on all referral and assessment forms. Those involved should be asked if they are safe at the moment and given appropriate advice if not.
If an individual attends a public building wanting help to flee domestic abuse, safety should be a priority. Whilst interviewing, ensure the safety of the parent and any children. This may mean alerting colleagues to the situation, providing somewhere safe for children to sit whilst their parent is interviewed and maintaining confidentiality regarding their whereabouts in the building.
The individual circumstances of a family should be taken into consideration where it is suspected a level of Domestic violence and abuse exists. In some families, mutual adult violence is the norm, however there can be a variety of reasons why both adults may be violent and this needs to be carefully assessed. This will affect the assessment and intervention process as the risk to babies / children will be increased in these circumstances.
Working with adults who are violent poses risks to workers. There should be a risk assessment of the situation with a manager and strategies agreed. This may require sharing with other agencies in order to protect workers. Where children are present, the child’s welfare must always be paramount – if it is too dangerous for professionals consider what this means for children.
The most dangerous time for an individual is when they are planning or have actually left the violent situation. Workers should, therefore, move at the pace advised by the individual and provide supportive services after they have left the family home. Continued single or multi-agency intervention may well be required in addition to the support of a refuge.
Individuals who return to domestic abuse situations require more help, not less. Returning to the home and familiar situation should be seen as a normal response to separation and part of the process of change. An up to date risk assessment should be completed in these circumstances.
Workers in all agencies are in a position to identify or receive a disclosure about domestic violence and abuse. Workers should ask direct questions about abuse and be alert to the signs that a child or parent may be experiencing or perpetrating domestic violence and abuse. Any response by agencies to such referrals should be discreet in terms of making contact with victims in ways that will not further endanger them or their child(ren).
Effective sharing of information between statutory and voluntary agencies is a vital part of positive response to Abuse. Workers need to familiarise themselves with the local services available to victims of domestic violence and abuse and their families in order to offer relevant services.
Workers should take a holistic approach to family support, including the provision of services appropriate to the issue of domestic abuse. Child concern matters should be discussed alongside domestic abuse and not treated as a separate factor. Where there has been significant harm caused or there is risk of significant harm, this will require a social work assessment.
The three central imperatives of any intervention for children living with domestic abuse are:
- To protect the child(ren), including unborn child(ren);
- To empower the victim to protect themselves and their child(ren); and
- To identify the abusive partner, hold them accountable for their abuse and provide them with opportunities to change.
The safety of the victim and children must take priority when planning intervention. This should include confidentiality regarding the family's whereabouts if they have left the home environment. Agencies should focus on the victims safety and that of the children.
In line with the Framework for the Assessment of Children's Needs and their families, particular reference should be made to the context within which the child is being brought up. This should include the impact that domestic abuse has on the parents' ability to meet the needs of their child and the effect on the child's development of living with family abuse.
Having assessed the vulnerabilities and strengths of a family workers should seek to provide services from statutory or voluntary agencies. An integrated service provision will best meet the needs of families living with domestic abuse. This may be met by use of current processes for assessing children’s needs and completion of the CAADA DASH Risk Indicator Checklist (for adults), with a referral to MARAC if the criteria is met.
The use of interpreters should be carefully considered where there are issues of Domestic Violence and Abuse, to ensure that they are not from their own community and that they have the relevant training. There are additional barriers to seeking help for members of ethnic minority groups, which require specific support and advice. Never raise the issue of Domestic Violence and Abuse unless the victim is alone.
Any risk assessment tool being used should be both culturally sensitive and explicitly consider the risks to the children. It should not be exclusively adult focused. The use of any risk assessment tool should be underpinned by a thorough analysis of the information otherwise available such as past history of offending. The risks should be interpreted to also determine the potential dangerousness of the alleged perpetrator.
Individual area arrangements
(See also Section 6, Additional Local Information).
Arrangements for managing domestic abuse will differ from area to area but in most cases will require a referral in through the MASSH /Referral Centre for signposting to other services, or for child in need assistance. It may be sufficient to complete a Common Assessment Framework, Early Help Assessment, or equivalent to secure assistance from other agencies depending on your area arrangements.
All workers should be aware of the inter-relationship between domestic violence and abuse and the abuse or neglect of children. In all circumstances where the abuse of a child is suspected workers should be alert to the possibility of domestic violence and abuse in the household. Where there is evidence of domestic violence and abuse workers should seriously consider the implications for the children in the household.
Social workers must consider the safety of individual women and children when making section 47 enquiries.
Many parents are worried that disclosure of the level of domestic violence and abuse will lead to removal of their children. Parents should be informed about what help is available to them which will enable them to protect themselves and promote the well-being of their children.
Where concerns persist parents should be provided with honest and clear information regarding the concerns workers have and the procedures that will be followed in order to protect their children. Individuals’ rights should be outlined and information of organisations that can support her/him provided.
The inclusion of violent partners in formal decision making needs to be discussed with a line manager. Safety issues need to be balanced with any possible benefits of all relevant parties attending.
When planning a Child Protection Conference advice should be sought from Independent Reviewing Officers, and probation, regarding how best to meet the safety needs whilst promoting full involvement in the process:
- Domestic Violence and Abuse should be noted as a factor leading to concern about a specific child and not treated as a separate issue. The domestic violence and abuse aspect should attract specific services in its own right and feed into the holistic assessment and intervention with each family.
Child Protection Conferences should be fully informed of the level of Domestic Violence and Abuse; clarifying the risks to the child from the presence of domestic abuse and any protective factors, which are available to the child. The written Child Protection Plan should include specific services aimed at the issue of domestic abuse. Subsequent Child Protection Reviews should share information relating to the response to these services and reassess the level of concern for the child.
Child Protection Plans should outline clear expectations about behaviour and improvements that need to be demonstrated, which includes actions to help the perpetrator to understand and discuss his/her behaviour. It is not sufficient that there are no further reports of domestic abuse in any given period unless there is a clear demonstration of the steps that have been taken to address the behaviour. All agencies should be wary of closing Child Protection Plans too quickly without evidence based change.
Core Groups and any other inter-agency meeting should document and act upon any evidence of Domestic Violence and Abuse in families.
All documentation referring to a family should carefully manage confidential information regarding the whereabouts of the victim, with or without children in their care, as disclosure of addresses may place them at risk. This would include Child Protection matters in Court proceedings and all minutes of meetings;
- Domestic Violence and Abuse issues should be considered when planning contact for children as research suggests this is an area where intimidation and abuse can continue. The impact of such contact for the child should be carefully considered. This should involve eliciting the child's wishes and feelings regarding their contact with their absent parent and any impact such contact has on the child's relationship with the resident parent.
Children's needs and the impact of Domestic Violence and Abuse on a child will vary. Workers need to engage in direct communication with a child to understand their perspective. It will be important to ensure, where appropriate the child is supported to keep safe when the need arises. One of the most effective ways to achieve this is completing a ‘safety plan’ with the child.
'Safety Planning' with children may include establishing:
- How to remain safe during an incident, i.e. not to intervene directly in the violence;
- Where they can go to use the telephone;
- Who they can talk to.
'Safety Planning' with adults helps to focus on practical plans, which will aid at a time of need. This should include:
- Finding somewhere the victim could quickly use a telephone;
- Keeping a spare set of keys and some money in an easily accessible place;
- Keeping important documents, passports, benefit books etc. in a safe place;
- Carrying a list of emergency numbers;
- Talking to the children about emergency situations;
- Talking to a neighbour or friend who may be able to help in an emergency;
- Having a bag with clothes and toys packed;
- Children must be kept informed about what is happening in a way which is appropriate to their age and understanding.
All forces in England and Wales have special Domestic Violence and Abuse units. The Public Protection Investigation Unit works closely with Children's Services and Health. Once an incident is reported, it will be recorded and a specially trained officer will assess if the victim should be contacted to offer advice and/or further services. The Police should share information involving incidents of Domestic Violence and Abuse with Children’s Social Care and Health Referral and Assessment teams where the incident involves any of the following:
- Victim or alleged/perpetrator is known to be pregnant; (or has given birth within the last 12 months);
- Child Abuse marker (CA) on the address (AND there are vulnerability issues/concerns);
- A child/children under the age of 18 ordinarily resides in the household and a child has made a call for assistance (AND there are vulnerability issues/concerns);
- A child/children under the age of 18 years ordinarily resides in the household and it is the third reported incident within the previous 12 months (whether the child was present or not at the time of the incident) (AND there are vulnerability issues/concerns);
- Serious incident or Crime recorded (where, in the professional judgement of the officer, a concern warranting a referral exists);
- All incidents that involve a previous MARAC case with the last 12 months;
- Notification of CSC Open cases at request of CSC; or
- Domestic incidents with High Risk Status (DASH).
Officers will still have the ability to use professional judgement to make a referral which may fall outside of the above criteria, and to also use professional judgement to decide not to make a referral if there are other agencies better placed to support the family.
Social Workers should always check records held by the Public Protection Investigation Unit regarding Domestic Violence and Abuse incidents as part of the gathering of information. The Data Protection Act 1998 limits the sharing of details but basic facts, i.e. the number of incidents, can be given. The Head of Service Child Protection can access more detailed information.
The Public Protection Investigation Unit can be asked for advice or help with joint visits where it is thought appropriate. They can also help to establish a personal alarm system for a small number of women where the male is out of the property but still poses a risk. A uniformed officer can be asked to prevent a breach of the peace whilst a woman and child leave the family home.
Role of Housing
Housing services are one of the key agencies for families experiencing or fleeing domestic abuse and they should be included in care planning discussions. Positive consideration should be given to referrals across authorities where the applicant is fleeing domestic violence and abuse. Victims are free to decline an offer to return home with the protection of a Non-Molestation Order or other Court order.
Housing workers should try to clearly lay out as many options for the applicant as possible, so that they can make an informed choice of what to do.
Housing workers should try not to be intrusive, however, they may ask for the history of domestic violence and abuse and wish to liaise with other agencies. The Housing code of guidance states "The fact that violence has not yet occurred does not on its own suggest that it is not likely to occur", therefore it should not be necessary for actual 'proof' of violence to be provided.
Many victims worried about their tenancy and household goods if they flee domestic violence and abuse. Housing Officers will advise them on possible options regarding securing their property and furnishings or relinquishing their tenancy, whichever they choose.
Positive consideration should be given to referrals across authorities where the applicant is fleeing domestic violence and abuse. Victims are free to decline an offer to return home with the protection of a Non Molestation Order or other court order.
Domestic Violence Protection Orders (DVPOs) were implemented across England and Wales from 8 March 2014.
They provide protection to victims by enabling the police and magistrates to put in place protection in the immediate aftermath of a domestic violence incident.
With DVPOs, a perpetrator can be banned with immediate effect from returning to a residence and from having contact with the victim for up to 28 days, allowing the victim time to consider their options and get the support they need.
Before the scheme, there was a gap in protection, because police couldn’t charge the perpetrator for lack of evidence and so provide protection to a victim through bail conditions, and because the process of granting injunctions took time.
The Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS) (also known as ‘Clare’s Law’) commenced in England and Wales on 8 March 2014. The DVDS gives members of the public a formal mechanism to make enquires about an individual who they are in a relationship with, or who is in a relationship with someone they know, where there is a concern that the individual may be violent towards their partner. This scheme adds a further dimension to the information sharing about children where there are concerns that domestic violence and abuse is impacting on the care and welfare of the children in the family.
Members of the public can make an application for a disclosure, known as the ‘right to ask’. Anybody can make an enquiry, but information will only be given to someone at risk or a person in a position to safeguard the victim. The scheme is for anyone in an intimate relationship regardless of gender.
Partner agencies can also request disclosure is made of an offender’s past history where it is believed someone is at risk of harm. This is known as ‘right to know’.
If a potentially violent individual is identified as having convictions for violent offences, or information is held about their behaviour which reasonably leads the police and other agencies to believe they pose a risk of harm to their partner, the police will consider disclosing the information. A disclosure can be made if it is legal, proportionate and necessary to do so.
For further information, see Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme.
- End The Fear: Help and support for anybody who is experiencing domestic or sexual violence;
- Broken Rainbow UK: National Helpline for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people experiencing Domestic Violence and Abuse;
- Greater Manchester Victims' Service.